(1)∵两条直线l1:(3+m)x+4y=5-3m,l2:2x+(5+m)y=8m平行∴ 3+m 2 = 4 5+m ≠ 3m?5 ?8m 解得:m=-7或m=-1当m=-1时,两直线重合∴m=-7 (2)∵两条直线l1:(3+m)x+4y=5-3m,l2:2x+(5+m)y=8m垂直∴2(3+m)+4(5+m)=0解得:m=- 13 3